i have all these symptoms listed except for the flashing PRNDS
http://www.evosoft.dk/DSGRepair.html
i am changing the oil and filter tomorrow but need the gearbox reset as the above advice and this is what he suggests
http://wiki.ross-tech.com/wiki/index.php/6-Speed_Direct_Shift_Gearbox_(DSG/02E)
i am willing to travel and pay for the right member who is confident they know how to do it as even if i bought VCDS wouldn't have a clue and dont want to screw the box up more than it already is.